

Have you ever had to give up something that you really wanted, or something you wanted to do, in order to do something you felt you were being asked to do? It’s not always easy to give up our idea for what God may be asking us to do. It’s called sacrifice. God always rewards our obedience though! I love that about Him! So here is my story…I hope it helps you make the decision that is right for you in the future.
My hubby and I always take a day or two get-away for Valentine’s Day. It was our plan to marry on Valentine’s Day when we got married but that plan didn’t work out. So because of that, we have always gone away to do something together to celebrate our “almost” wedding day. We consider it our anniversary day, even though we also celebrate our actual date of marriage. So we had planned a three day time away in one of my favorite places with lots of other fun activities included. But then, I found out that my very good friend was having surgery for a knee replacement two days before Valentine’s Day, and I was scheduled to go up and help her. So… hubby and I talked about what we could do, and decided we would make plans to do something together the weekend before. Terry wanted to make the plans for those two days, so that was kind of fun for me since it’s usually me who does that. Friday afternoon, he went and did his food shopping for the weekend, and came back with a beautiful rose and card. That was a part of his table setting the next morning.
Here was his plan: he made me breakfast with mocha included, he would make dinner for me on Saturday evening, but he had planned snacks for during the day. I was to do whatever I wanted that day…read, take pictures, whatever I wanted. I didn’t get to know what was going to happen the following day until it came. We had a lovely candlelit dinner at home with time together and a special movie we watched. He had snacks planned for later in the evening too! Lovely day! He told me we had to get up early the following morning because he had a plan for that also.

My hubby’s table set for me. Still have to work out the deal with bottles but hey…it looks awesome!

Ocean view at Pacific Beach, WA

Little town of Pacific Beach, WA

The interesting layers of nature after the storm.

Seemed almost appropriate somehow for the reason we were out that day.

Always good to attain the climb from worldly things to go for higher ground.


So we got up and he fixed me breakfast. While we ate he said he wanted to take me for a ride, and I was to bring my camera and we would go out to Pacific Beach and take photos! Don’t have to ask me twice to do that!!! He would buy me an early dinner after my beach fix, and we would just check some places out as we went. Well…be still my heart! That is MY kind of day. So we went to the beach and I took photos; some fun photo opportunities. We walked around, and got silly photos too! Then I just happened to find a wacky kind of second-hand store that I found my Norwegian Farmers Rose cups for $.50 each!!! I was SO excited. That was just a drive by and I said, “Look! That is open! Let’s go see!” It pays, I tell ya! After all that, we went to get our dinner, and then on the way back home, I bought us a Starbucks. We both came home feeling wonderful after another day of fun together!
What a treat! It doesn’t take much to find sweet times together, or with a friend if that is the case in your life. It also taught me that to give up is to get back. We decided together that we wanted to do this so that I could help a friend. We were blessed by that decision, and God gave us a wonderful couple of days to enjoy the little things in life. Don’t hold back because you think you will lose when God calls you forward to do something different from your plan! Step through the door and let Him bless you with other ways, and the means to find joy in the change. We will still go do our first idea, but just for the day and one night. We get to have another fun day activity, along with our weekend plans we enjoyed so much.
I think the moral of this story is that when we are willing to follow what the Lord calls us to do, and we are willing to do it in obedience to Him, He will take care of giving us back more than what we give. It’s really a heart issue. It had nothing to do with giving something up. It wasn’t hard. I was glad to do it. But it taught me once again that when I am willing to step out and obey, God will take care of everything else; my hubby’s willingness to change the schedule, be a bachelor for a week, the plans to still do some of what we planned when I got back, it all worked out.
Have a willing heart to let go of your plans, and hang on to God’s plans. That is best for all of us anyway!!! I will share more of my insights with my friend in my next post.
Until next time…
~JoAnn
P.S. My sweet cups that I was so excited to find!








I find it rather fascinating to see that even though I lost my prints, this creation we call our body, grew new skin and gave me my finger prints back. God did that in His creation of us. My hands and arms became a new creation…and my prints today are used when I have had to apply for jobs and permits. How unique God has made us! The thing is, if He can make us unique enough that an accident can not take away my unique prints, even when they had to become new, and they can still identify me as me, THAT is pretty amazing! He cares for me that much. He cares for you that much. He has made you unique and has unique plans just for you. Not to be compared with others, but made and created just for you.


As I am reading in a current study, I find myself in total agreement with the author who says we can get deafened to hearing from God because we have so
many loud noises trying to get our attention. He also says that we become deaf to God speaking to us. He needs to be our loudest voice. I think so too. When I am living more like I shared above, I am more relaxed and just enjoy the moment for what it is. A mocha, a phone call from a friend, a prayer request that I immediately pray for, time with a child, listening to a great song, playing a tune I just made up, or spending time with hubby doing some of our favorite things. For example, I don’t just drink a mocha. I savor the warmth of the cup, the flavor of the drink, who I am with, where I am at….all those things. I’m thankful. Some do not have a warm drink, let alone a warm home. So I say thank you that I can enjoy this moment because He has been provided for that. When I sing and play, I am thankful for the gift of a singing voice and that I can even still sing; not like I used to, but at least I can still sing. I sing my thanks, I listen to the lyrics as I sing…it is all about taking the time to hear what song God even brings up in my spirit TO sing. That can be a message all by itself! That is listening! The new year for me brings up all the things that are right in my world, not all the things that are wrong. I look for good when I make my goals, and let God show me what He will willing to do with this year.
something I pass on, but it may be a treasure some day for someone else. There are mysteries in our lives, and I think we need to be more open to sharing them while we are here to share them. I encourage my boys to ask me what they want to know if I haven’t shared it with them already. So if you aren’t a journal type person, remember, it doesn’t have to be a page; it may only be a paragraph. It may even be a sentence or two. Great! Just put it down.
My new year’s wish for you is that you take this new year as an opportunity to mix things up a little bit. Do something new. Change what you don’t like and replace it with something you do! Become a an artist of your own life; a writer of your own story. There are times in my life where a certain situation comes up and I would love to see God change that, like… immediately. But of course, that is not the case. God has His own time frame, and His own reasoning for where I am and what I am doing. So instead of complaining about it, I’m learning to ask Him to help me understand it, AND the process. That way my focus is more on solution than complaint. You see, if we change how we look at things, we change everything about it. I can’t take a picture of a flower if I’m focused on the sky. I have to get down where the flowers grow, maybe even grovel on the ground a bit to get the best view. THEN… I can see the beauty that is there to see. It is all about our perspective.
take more time in an area, be better about putting God first in our day, simplify our life and schedule, eat healthier, exercise, or whatever He speaks to you about. Then ask Him to give you a word that will help you focus more towards making that a reality. It’s a great thing! I have reaped the benefits of doing this for the last 15 years at least. I usually make a visual of my word with scrabble letters and keep it on my desk.
Advent ~ Christmas Wreath
Advent ~ Homemade
Advent ~ Stockings
Advent ~ Angels