FOR SALE: Today, I am writing in response to many who are asking me questions based on a few of my posts about moving. Some of the questions are:
- Why move?
- Where will we move?
- Why do you want to leave your home after you just got it more the way you wanted it?
- As I have shared where that move might take us, the question of why we would move so FAR comes up.
Understandable. I asked some of those same questions as I prayed and talked with God about the whole situation. Even though it is hard, there are many different reasons. I thought maybe if I share some of my thoughts about this season of change and transition, maybe it will resonate with some of you. When a big wind of change comes into your life in the future, maybe you can be more prepared to approach changes in your lives with an open heart. Here we go with a few financial choices we have made:
- First, I am looking for what God is doing. It is like Dave Ramsey says, “Live like no one else SO THAT, you can live like no one else.” (emphasis are mine)
- We have lived in places others would not want to live.
- We have lived in houses others wouldn’t desire to live in.
- We have made decisions such as moving to the midwest to work for a ministry. Many thought we were kind of crazy to do that, especially since we were going to a home sight unseen. But God… He took care of us and all the details!
- We drive used cars so we don’t have car payments.
- We do the work on our home to save money on our future utilities.
- We make the hard choices so that later, we can make the fun choices.
With that said, we are now entering into the next chapter. A move. We could make the decision and just stay here. We could. God gives us a free will. We have enjoyed it here and have accomplished the above things in our current home. However, as we have prayed about it, we have felt that God has something else He wants to do in us and for us. Are we going to be obedient? Yes. We want to be in God’s will. I have been praying for a long time about our future retirement years and what we want that to look like. So, we began to ask ourselves:
- What are our priorities?
- What do we want our life to look like?
- What makes us happy?
- What is it that really feeds our souls?
- What must we do to be able to live that way in our daily life?
- What do we need to do to get from here, to there?”
What is our plan? Why the move out of the area? The answer is simple. We will go where the housing is less expensive than here in current location. It will not be too far away that a drive up north can’t fix. Being debt free is what we desire. By keeping the mortgage cost down, we can still continue to enjoy our life, enhance our home, and travel. As we began to ponder these questions, there were some changes to make in order for our lives to be what we envision. Doesn’t mean this location is wrong. On the contrary. God gave us this wonderful home and it will be wonderful now, for the next owner. We are proud of leaving our home much better than we came into it. We have enhanced its character. I love that. I am now praying about, and planning in my head for the next home He brings. We will dedicate it just as we did this home.
Part of our discussion has been our life style. We can easily become too busy, overextended, and have crazy schedules. In the long run, it doesn’t help us to really have peace or joy because we are always running. We get worn out. I know many who later on in their lives, have regrets about their lives and how they wanted it to be, but it isn’t. Personally, I view change as a way to start a new chapter with what I have learned in the last chapter. If we will be open and willing to really hear, and not ignore, what God is telling us or leading us to do, we WILL reap the benefits of His guidance. I don’t want to miss that. But if we ignore what our hearts are telling us deep down, then we may have a life that works, but not as fulfilling as it could be.
I have been reading a great book by Michael Hyatt called, “Living Forward”. The book discusses the idea of having a Life Plan. A life plan is designed by you, and meant to give you direction with your whole life; whether at home with family, relationships, a career, or any other area. It has been very insightful to me. It is exactly what we have been praying about for our life, and was affirmation of what God may be leading us to do. I would encourage you to get this book and read it. Don’t be afraid to make the changes necessary. Who knows how God will use the changes you make? He knows what is important to us and will work out the details; even missing friends and family that will be further away.
My hubby and I are at the precipice looking over the edge. We are choosing to step out in obedience. We put our hands in His, and obediently walk this path out. God asks us to step into the water before He parts it, so we step forward even though we can’t see exactly what is ahead. We trust He will land us exactly where we need to be planted for this season. It’s up to us how we react to it all. I am very grateful for all God has done for us, and I am very excited to see where God will take us. Watch for future posts of the journey!
Update: We got the listing up with photos and one hour later we received a call for a showing. Got favorable response with possible offer, and then another call for an appointment for 5:30p and the first day! God is working!
Walking the journey with you…