A Slow Journey Back

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I am back among the living…at least I think I am. I have been gone from my blog and normal life for almost six weeks as I underwent surgery. I had bilateral knee replacement, and for a simpler version of that statement, I had total knee replacement on both knees at the same time. Many people ask me if I would recommend it. In fact, that is the first question they usually ask me. My answer is still out on that. I know for me, I did it because I don’t like hospitals and all that goes with it, so I knew I wouldn’t want to come back again to get the second one done. I will tell you it’s not easy and one of the hardest journeys I have taken in a long while.

When you are in this situation, you really have to learn to live with yourself. You have only yourself, your brain, and what you are thinking all the time. I was most fortunate to have a husband that stood by me the whole time. He took time off of work to be with me in the hospital everyday, then when we got home, he took care of me in the day and through the night; eventually doing that and working too. He was a great house husband too!  God knows what we need.  However, as you know you talk to yourself non-stop all day long and I found that what I was saying certainly didn’t line up with what I was praying.  Oops!!  Not good.  You see, I also had a lot of blood loss, and so I had to have transfusions to even get me to a place that I had enough energy to get myself up out of the bed.  And then I had to have it a second time, and I got a reaction so the last half was not administered.  So my recovery was very slow.  I remember one time thinking that people would say of me, “She came in for knee replacements, but didn’t come home.”  Now WHERE did THAT thought come from?  To give even a second thought to that was to allow the devil free rein in my thinking, and that just wasn’t going to happen.  I may FEEL like I’m going nowhere fast, but I wasn’t going to give in to it.  The night hours were the worst when you can’t sleep and satan tries to fill your mind with defeat.  I would call the nurse and get up! I would walk to the bathroom and walk back to the bed.  I would tell myself, “I was making progress, no matter how slow it may look, I wasn’t destined to be this way forever.  It will change.”  I was blessed to have my sweetie there all day telling me that I could do it.  To say that it was a humbling experience, it to put it mildly.  He became my nurse.  I believe with all my heart, that I am where I am today because of the prayers of faithful friends and family who covered me daily in prayer.  I had circles upon circles prayed around me!  Does that mean that I still don’t have times of discouragement? Nope. I still can have that feeling at times when I want to do something that just doesn’t work too well for me right now.  But, then I have to remember where I came FROM, and then I am thankful I have come this far.

My experience is not your experience so if you are looking to this in YOUR future, I would say, have a GREAT doctor (do your research), and prepare yourself ahead of time for what you need to do.  He is faithful.  I walked from the very beginning with a walker, but only for a couple of weeks.  Then it was a cane, and the last couple of weeks, I have walked on my own without assistance from either.  I would say that is a good track record, and my healing IMG_3482WILL be complete.  Is it over?  No.  I still have pain and discomfort.  But I can now do other things to help with that. I am even down to my last three visits of PT.  Yay!  But I still have to discipline myself to do it on my own.  See?  We are required to do our part.

Lessons?

  • Trust. Trust. Trust.
  • Don’t listen to the wrong voice in your ear.
  • God will use circumstances and people around you to bless you and lift you up.
  • The end of something is always better than the beginning. Always…because we have learned.
  • I learned I have an inner strength given to me by God that keeps me going no matter what.
  • Have a grateful heart for everything; that included my physical therapy. Yuck…
  • I am required to do my part.

IMG_4948This is only one snap shot of my life. I will likely have many more, and maybe some that will be harder than this to make it through.  But I know where my strength comes from, so I can look to the future with hope!  I’m happy to answer any questions if you leave them in the comments.

Walking, yes walking…the journey with you.

Come and Sit A While

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Have you ever wondered why a sunset or sunrise strikes awe in us when we see it?  How about a lake or the ocean waves?  Or the quiet beauty of the forest?  Or maybe a flower?  What causes that deep sense of awe and well-being as we stop to enjoy the beauty of creation; the kind of thing that you never get tired of looking at.

I believe that’s the way God designed it.  The things we see or the sounds we hear cause us to lean in a bit closer, listen a little more intently, close our eyes for a moment and breathe deep.  I believe it is because we have that space in our hearts that only God can fill.  He wants to give it back to us so we are reminded of what is around us.  But we can get so caught up in the daily regime, that we forget to take those moments to see it.  We get so busy that we miss out on the call.  Its like we could have a front row seat at God’s theatre if we but took the time.  Instead, we end up in the back, with a lack luster seat, or we don’t even make it to the theatre!  What a shame!  We miss out on what God wants to show us.  I know I have shared about this before, but it just seems that I am supposed to share it again. 

Here is an example of how God wants to blow us away if we are looking and expecting Him to.  I was in the local grocery store yesterday and as I put my groceries up on the belt, the lady in front of me says, “Oh, let me move this out of the way.”  We both looked up at each other, and I couldn’t believe it!  We both said each other’s name at the same time!  This lady was my choral and ensemble director when I was in Junior High School.  I loved her class, loved her directing, and we had so much fun singing under her directing.  Unfortunately, she resigned and as I went through Junior High School and High School, we kept in touch.  Even though she moved away, we wrote letters, which I still have by the way, and then lost touch for several years with all of their moves and mine.  I tried finding her over the years on Facebook and other ways, but to no avail.  Then, someone I know saw her several years ago and then gave me her phone number.  I called and we talked like we never lost touch.  However, once again, we lost touch with all of my moving.  But God was about to do a great thing that day; a divine God connection.  You see, I wasn’t wanting to go to the store that day.  I wanted to go home.  But for some reason I didn’t quite understand, I felt I was supposed to stop.  I listened.  God cared enough about my desire to find her, that He placed her right in front of me in the grocery line!  Isn’t that just like God?  I loved it!  I went home and found her on Facebook and have had a couple short visits since then.  What a TOTAL blessing!

This is the deal…we need to live expecting God to do great things on a daily basis in our lives.  He wants to, if we will just watch for it.  He speaks to us throughout our day in amazing ways.  So, today, as I will be out of commission for a while with some surgery, I want to leave you with this message:  Expect Him to move in miraculous ways, and watch for what He will do.  Pray for it. Be bold in asking for it.  BUT…watch for His answers!  You never know what He will do!  I’m asking and I’m expecting!  I’m leaning in REAL close so I don’t miss a thing!

Walking the journey with you…

Swing Wide Your Gates!

ImageI was out planting some calla lilies yesterday and saw this view as I walked by the back porch. It made me once again stop to enjoy how happy these plants are in this spot, AND, in this pot! I have talked about this before but today it hit home again, so I will share the thought with you.

These plants love to be in a crowded environment. The more crowded, the better. They like close proximity. They actually flourish in these circumstances. I believe that we all need a bit more of this in our lives. We need to be with others, to sharpen each other, remember good times, laugh, and maybe cry a little with each other. It helps us in ways we can’t always put our finger on, but we walk away from the time together, and our heart says, “That was GOOD!”

When I was younger, it was the Sunday activity for families to gather together for an afternoon visit after church and may even share an evening meal together. We would stop, when our folks could afford to treat us, and have an ice cream on the way to the relative’s/friend’s house. It would be way into the evening before the day would end and we would go home. Today, that doesn’t happen in many families. We are single units doing life. Sunday becomes another day to get something done. I think we could benefit from having more fellowship with each other on a Sunday afternoon. Just like these plants grow better close to each other, we can gather together, support each other, listen to each other, lean on each other, and be better off for it. Facebook, texting and email can be a great venue to do some of that, but there is nothing like a face to face chat. It becomes a time for sharing, laughter, expressions, eye to eye contact, and a hug or two over coffee or a meal. In this day and age, it takes some real effort to make this happen, but I believe it is worth it.

What are YOU doing Sunday afternoon? Call family and/or friends and step out into a fun time of fellowship. You may not have another chance to do it. We aren’t promised a tomorrow. Remember the picture of how healthy these cats and kittens are as they grow close to each other. Each leaf is holding up the one next to it. They don’t stifle each other; they grow even better, and stronger. I think fellowship with each other is just like that! It’s a great way to live! Swing wide your home gates and invite someone in! YOU will be the one blessed!

What were you doing this Sunday again? Walking the journey with you…

Are You In The Spin Cycle?

ImageToday I came across a picture of my grandson Ethan when he was just a baby and what a sweet picture it is!  But as I look at it, I am reminded of how quickly time has passed.  He has grown up so much and is now 8 years old; he will be 9 years old in December.  Where did the time go?  That is probably about 2,565 days that have passed!  Wow!  Ethan and I have done a lot of things in that amount of days in whatever amount of time we had together.  But what about me during those same days?  What about you?  What have you done with your days of 24 hours?  

If I take my 24 hours that I am given and I rest for at least 8 of those hours, what am I about doing for the remaining 16 or so hours in my day?  Am I productive?  Am I working towards my goals?  Spending time with loves one?  Or ENOUGH time with loved ones?  Do I make time to be alone with God?  Do I breathe in the air and then think how blessed I am that I can breathe without trouble?  Do I enjoy the flowers that I have, and feel God’s blessings that I can walk over to them, as well as, bend over to smell them or look closer?  What occupies my mind during my 24 hours? Where is my heart for each 24 hours I have been given?  I have made some changes in my life that have made such a huge difference, that I want to encourage you in this area too.  I have FELT the difference in my life since being mindful of how I spend my time, who I spend it with, and what I focus on.  It is now a lot easier to say no to things which would set the spin cycle into motion.

First, after your rest, I think God wants to be first in your day.  Wake up and thenImage thank God for at least five things before your feet even hit the floor.  He wants to speak to you, give you some encouragement, and a boost, to handle all the things that come into your upcoming day.  You might find you handle your situations a lot better if you start that way.  I know, you think you don’t have time in the mornings.  But that’s not a good excuse.  It’s too important for you to skip.  Be in the Word.  It can’t help you if you don’t have it IN you.  Remember, you are in a battle each day!  Wield the sword!  But we need to be in the Word so that we know to speak it out!

Secondly, re-think how involved your kids AND you are in outside activities.  If you are running from dawn to dusk, I don’t think that is necessarily the way God wants your day to go.  Yes, it’s important for kids to be involved.  Yes, it’s important for you to be involved in activities too.  But, not at the expense of never having some quality time to sit down together to dream, love and cuddle!  Another factor is that your family needs to see a secure relationship between husband and wife.  Your marriage needs alone time too!

ImageThe world today is on spin cycle!  It is like when you were kids and you got on the merry-go-round and got going faster and faster and you had to hang on for dear life so you wouldn’t fall off.  That is what we sometimes make our life and family life look like.  You can’t see anything when you are spinning so fast.  It all becomes a blur.  Not much to enjoy when it is just whizzing by!  I chose to get off.

Why?  

  • I want to look at pictures like I did today, or talk with my grown kids who remember times we did things together as a family, and feel at peace with the legacy I am leaving.
  • I want to have time to encourage another in our journey of life.  You never know when God is going to use something you do or say to help another.
  • I want to feel that I am exactly where God wants me to be.
  • I am using my time better and better for His purposes.  

Some of you who know me, may see me online a lot during the day.  That is because my computer IS up most of the day, but I’m not sitting here most of the day.  I am about my life and sharing it with others in ways I hope encourages you to breathe easier, slow down, appreciate what God has given you, and be grateful for the fact that you are alive!  I keep very busy myself,  but I look for the balance in my day.  And…I find it.  

I have been reading a book about the idea of living in such as way for God that it looks “weird” to other people.  I guess many may say that of me; that’s ok.  I am glad I’m weird, if that is what it takes to live my life as God is revealing it to me to live.  God has shown me that being a bit weird, is a good thing.  I love the fact that I am learning to live simply, taking Him at His word, and that I enjoy each day for what He gives me.  In that process, I am ultimately drawn closer to Him and isn’t that what we want for ourselves?  I know it’s what I want.

So what do you do?

  • Begin asking yourself as you look over your list of activities, if doing this activity or getting involved here, will enhance your goals of family time and family activities, and time with the Lord?
  • Have a family meeting where you discuss as a family what is most important to each member.  Make some hard choices and limit where you say, “Yes”.  Remember no is a complete sentence.
  • Realize that you may have to say, “No”, to something another family is doing, just so you can truly have the things which are important to YOUR family.  Don’t compare apples to oranges.  Be a bit weird.
  • Guard your quiet time.  It is important for children and grandchildren to see you in the Word, and seeing you make choices based on the Word.  
  • We sometimes feel competitive to what others are doing around us.  RESIST!
  • Go into this Fall Season with a renewed sense of direction for your 24 hours each day.  Reevaluate! 

ImageLet me leave you with this thought:  Don’t willingly go to the spin cycle lifestyle.  You can’t even see what’s going on around you when you are spinning so fast on a merry-go-round.  So slow it down.  Enjoy going around and having fun, but slow down so you can enjoy the ride, and experience it.  You are the only one that can control how fast your life spins.  Don’t be someone that sits and looks at a picture years from now and says, “I wish I had done things differently.  I wish I spent more time with my family. I wish we played in the water more.  Or like me MANY years ago, when I was working 3 jobs when the kids were young to make ends meet, say I wish I had stayed home…I wish…I wish…I wish…  Not anymore.  I knew better then, but felt I had no choice, and kept going for many years.  We ALWAYS have a choice.  It is just what we are willing to do.  However, God has brought me to a new place in the last 12 years and I am VERY thankful for it!  I look to the future with hope!  What about you?  What part of this story resonates with you?  Are you willing to do the work to get off the spinning wheel?  

I say, step off.  In fact jump off!  It feels wonderful!!!  Walking the journey with you…

 

The Legacy Continues

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Today starts a new legacy for something that I have had in my home for about ten years, but has always been a part of my life. What is that, you ask? My dad’s jewelry box. I don’t know about yours, but my dad’s jewelry box was a treasure box of stored goodies. Anything from jewelry to an old ceramic marble could be found in there! One of my favorites? A little tiny bible that you can actually read out of. It was so cool and we had to be very careful when we opened it so nothing would happen to it. I don’t know the story behind that bible or where it came from, but I know it was always there as far back as I can remember. I have that Bible today and Ethan finds as much joy in that little book as I did. As a child, I loved to browse that jewelry box often. He even had coins and silver dollar bills and some $2 bills that could be found in there. Good times and memories!

So this weekend as Ethan and I were talking, he mentioned he really wanted a jewelry box for his ring and a few necklaces he had. So I thought today was a good day to share more of the story, empty out the items and send it home with him. I also told him how much I know my folks would have loved to meet him and that they would be proud of him wanting that old jewelry box for his treasures! He was very excited and told me how he was going to take such great care of it. I love passing the legacy of stories along to him. That is how he can learn more about where he comes from.

So I am happy to report it went into his little backpack to its new home and somehow I feel that mom and dad are looking down with big smiles today on that little boy who wanted that box.

Sharing life…walking the journey with you…

I’m Ready!

ImageThe Traveling Cottage is at home and getting prepared for her maiden voyage!  I can’t wait!!!  In fact, this week, I made some ice tea and went out to enjoy it in my little place.  I closed the door of the trailer so I wouldn’t be reminded that I was REALLY sitting in my own back yard, and I pretended like I was somewhere overlooking the water!  Ah…the life!

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Do you ever have the need to just get away?  Ever felt lonely when all you would have to do is call someone by phone, but you don’t?  You don’t think you are “down”, but still feel unsettled? How about, you feel something and you don’t even know why you feel that way, or WHAT you ARE feeling?  Oh, ok guys…no laughing!  I am at home with a more relaxed schedule because I don’t work outside the home, so you would think that it wouldn’t hit me as much.  BUT, I find that I still need to get away from the familiar and set myself apart!  And sometimes, He has to remind me.  He’s creative like that.

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Just this morning, I started again reading the book of Mark.  During the first three chapters, I am reminded of how each of the those men just left what they were doing and WENT.  They didn’t think about it, they didn’t have second thoughts about their life; Jesus called and they went!  So it made me think that I may need to do that very thing!  This feeling I have is God calling me to a quiet place, where ever that may be, to spend time with Him.  I don’t have to be lonely because He is there.  I have Someone to talk to…Him.  I can find a place to get a way for a while…my favorite spot in my home, my deck, a drive in the car, a park, where every it may be.  I CAN do that.  I NEED to do that.  What happens?  

  • He fills me up.
  • Gives me insight.
  • I am refreshed just like sitting with my glass of ice tea in my Traveling Cottage.  
  • He will meet me there!

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Oh the lessons and insights we can learn if we are open to His leading in our everyday existence!  I WANT to be, and I want to notice when He is whispering in the soft breeze for me to come and share an ice tea with Him.  Will you go?  Will you drop everything and walk or sit with Him a spell?  I did that yesterday in my Traveling Cottage in my own back yard, and again today, in my office.  It was a good time of refreshing and refocusing.

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So, I leave you with this question:  Have you ever felt this way?  Tell me about it.  I would love to hear your comments.  Walking the journey with you…

Want To Travel With Me In My Traveling Cottage?

ImageWell….drum roll please!!!!!  I can now officially announce that the Shiley’s have a little traveling cottage!  Yep!!  You guessed it!  We are proud owners of a cute little camp trailer that I will lovingly refer to as our traveling cottage!  My mom and dad would be so happy and proud!

What’s up with getting a trailer you may ask?  I grew up in one!  As a child, and even into teen years, we went every where and camped in our little Canned Ham Style Trailer, as they are lovingly referred to.  I loved it!  We went to the lakes, the ocean, parks and various places and enjoyed the ability to travel, see things we hadn’t seen before and bring our home with us.  Our first trailer was VERY small and not self-contained, but we didn’t mind running to the camp site bathrooms.  I always slept in the hammock above the couch (that folded down into a bed) and would wake up to the smell of coffee every morning as dad, or sometimes mom, would be making coffee.  Not much chance of sleeping in when you are right on top of the kitchen.  But I wouldn’t trade those days for anything!  We got up and going and were out all day making our own fun and exploring the area where we stayed.  We ran the beaches, dug for clams, raked smelt and fried them up that night.  We had campfires and roasted hot dogs.  We would have s’mores for dessert!  Ah… the life!  From the open windows at night, you could smell the outdoors, listen to the sound of the running river or the waves of the ocean, and of course, I often was itching from mosquitoes!  I remember so well!  Many times, I brought a friend along with us on a camping trip!

But the thing that I forgot to do is tell my folks how much fun those times were to me.  They sacrificed a lot to have that fun.  On a tight budget, they bought their first trailer.  It was gray and white on the outside.  I loved that thing!  When I had friends spend the night, we would sleep out in the trailer to have our own over night experience!  But one day, when we came home from school, as I have shared in a previous post, my mom had apparently gotten bored, and she had painted the inside of the trailer lime green and tangerine orange!!!  Oh my!  Dad couldn’t believe it when he came home to that!  She on the other hand?  She was quite pleased with herself!  

But those sacrifices to enjoy themselves and relax, were also given as a way to give us pleasure.  We had no problem helping load things up when mom or dad would tell us we were going camping!  Boom!…  Done!  So, I have always wanted to have that same opportunity for myself and the kids.  That hasn’t been something that I was able to do for them.  We were able to do some camping, but nothing like when I was a child.  I am happy to see them doing some of it themselves now, however.  But as my sweetheart and I talked, we really wanted to make a way to have a “home away from home” to enjoy the outdoors together, a camp fire, a little outdoor cooking and the view of the water when it was available (my request).  We have a Thousand Trails membership that belonged to my folks and I received that from them.  So I feel like their legacy lives on in my sweetheart and I and our little traveling cottage.  We can now build those memories and share them with friends and family.  We can give those to Ethan, our grandson and make my folks’ sacrifice a legacy that we pass on.  It took us longer to achieve it, but it’s all in God’s timing.

My advice and thoughts?  Don’t wait until you can’t tell your parents anymore how much those kind of memories are cherished by you.  I would love to tell my folks, but I can’t.  If you have yours around, be sure to share how much you loved the fun times together and share a thought or two with them about what it meant to you.  They will love to hear it!  It helps them know that how they lived out their life meant something to you, and that you cherish those memories.  It’s the heart of your family.

Next stop for us?  Thousand Trails…and by the water!!!  I will be in my happy place!  I pray that somehow mom and dad, you know… and maybe even say, “Thata girl (me)…thata boy (my sweetie)…you know how to enjoy life.  Make it count!”

Living our legacy, and walking the journey with you…

What Level Is Your Hope Quotient At?

ImageThis afternoon, I had the time to walk around and enjoy the plants and trees that we have recently planted in our yard.  It brings me joy to do so!  As I checked everything out, I came to the cats and kittens that I have had for almost two years.  What was brought to my attention today was, the fact that only a few weeks ago, I thought I had lost part of my plants.  They appeared dead and dried out.  But today, there was new life coming right out of the middle of what looked liked a dead plant.  Wow!  There is a good lesson for me here.  What is it, you ask?

I may find myself in situations that seem impossible.  I may think there is no way out, or that it will never change.  But these pictures are evidence and a reminder that it can and does!  When areas of my life look impossible to change, I can choose to see hope coming through and new growth potential for me.  God wants me to live with hope that it CAN be different!  

ImageSo, I walked around with a thankful heart today, and I was lifted in my spirit by this small lesson that I believe God gave me.  I wanted to share that reminder with you.  Don’t look at the impossible, but look to the future with hope!  We can grow and change; in ourselves and/or in our circumstances.  We can have a newness in our lives that brings us joy.  I was consistent in nourishing this plant, even when it looked like it had died.  During winter months, you would think it would never come back.  But because I kept nourishing it as it needed, the plant went through its life cycle, and new life has appeared!  We, too, will make it through our hard times and can come though it with new life and perspective!  God wants to nourish us, encourage us, change us and guide us into a newness of life!

Today, I am asking you to look for where this might apply in your life.  I live with a high hope quotient!  I expect good things from God for my life!  I believe He wants me to live like that!  I can come through the fire (trials) and not even smell of smoke, God says.  Alright!!!  That is for ME!  

Let me leave you with this question:  If I were to ask you where you are on a scale of 1-10 on the hope quotient, where would you be?

Walking the journey with you…

 

Road Trip Part 4

img_1934Here we are in Part 4 of the Road Trip.  Isn’t is amazing that we can go from sharing a postcard with someone when we are on a trip, to posting in on a blog and letting many, many people share in your experience?  Changing times…

To catch up you, we are now headed to Wenatchee and meeting up with a cousin of mine that I haven’t seen in years and years.  As we drive into Wenatchee, we are wondering which way to go because it has changed so much since I last was there!  So with my Maps on my phone and hubby’s good sense of direction, we were able to find her house.  What a fun reunion we had visiting and catching up.  They took us out for dinner and we got to keep the conversation going.  It was once again a reminder that family is so important, and that losing contact with them is such a waste of great fellowship!  We need our family and surprisingly, they need us too.  Don’t let time constraints keep you from staying in touch!  I got the address of a cousin that was my best bud when we were five years old and sent him a couple of pictures of us.  I am in high hopes he will contact me back!

So after that wonderful visit, we headed toward Leavenworth and to our home for the night.  We are staying at Thousand Trails, Leavenworth and thought we had a pretty good idea where we were going.  I even got directions from the reservations operator.  Yeah…well…not really.  She had us going the back way in, we had no idea where we were and it was getting dark.  I thought I would use my phone and see where we are!  Wrong.  Got our pin point location and then lost signal because we are up in mountains!  Ok, how about the map?  Nope.  The roads aren’t even on the map and this is a new map!  We would get a signal and then hubby would move forward with the car and lose it.  Of course at one point he just stopped but that wasn’t the place where we could get signal.  If it wasn’t getting so annoying that we had such poor directions without technology, it would have been kind of humorous.  So after a lot of, “I don’t know.  I’ve never been here before either!” comments, we just kept driving and I started praying that we would find it soon.  Nobody to ask because there weren’t that many houses there.  When we did find someone place to ask, at a small hotel, they didn’t answer their door for service.  So we got back on the road and kept driving.  Several more miles down the road, and we saw the sign.  We had been driving total of at least 50 minutes looking.  But, we DID find it…thank you Jesus!  And below, you will find a picture of our home away from home.  Not bad, huh?

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We even had a BBQ on our deck we could use.  I think we will come back to this one!  It was beautiful!  As you can see, it had a pool also!  Oh yah!!  Course, I won’t be seen in any form of a bathing suit, but it is way cool to have a pool.  Maybe a midnight swim when no one is looking????  I always wondered why some designer hasn’t designed a swim suit for “the less likely for two-piece anymore” kind of gal!  You know, one that comes almost to the knee?  Skirt type with a BIG flair to it?  I can see it, can’t you?  But I digress.

IMG_1644So we unload our things from the car and walk into our house and the lights are on and music is playing…I like that they wanted us to feel right at home.  Kind of like the Motel 6 commercial where they talk about leaving the light on for you.

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So the next morning, we are up and going and headed into Leavenworth to have breakfast.  It is so nice to just have no particular schedule and just enjoy the moment.  Breakfast was very yummy!   After eating we parked our car on the main street and hit the shops with great anticipation.  Oh my!! SO many things to look at.  Look what I found in the first shop!!  I put my keys on it right after this picture was taken.  I even got a “J” charm to add to it!  Yep, its me!!

IMG_1680IMG_1679The of course, I had to walk across the street because I saw chocolate.  And hot or not, I had to get some to enjoy!  Oh yummy!  The store is full of wonderful chocolate of all kinds!

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I just loved this shop window!  It was fixed up so cute!  And look at this chocolate covered macadamia nuts!  I also got some chocolate covered orange sticks too!  But I DID share with my sweetie.

IMG_1661IMG_1655IMG_1654Wasn’t that “eye candy” for the chocolate lover’s soul?  It sure was to me!  We walked to another little shop and found the coolest furniture made from whisky barrels!  I would have loved to buy the table and stools for our bedroom.  Yeah…that’s another story.  But anyway, we sure did like them; very creative style.

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IMG_1662IMG_1652It is a nice ambiance walking the streets of Leavenworth.  You can find some very unusual things.  One store had a statue that my hubby had to show me because I am Norwegian and it is a statue of the Norwegian God of Folklore.  He really liked it!

IMG_1671I also have always wanted to get an old vintage trailer and fix up.  I have some great, creative ideas but not always as practical for me, because who would remodel a vintage trailer for me?  I certainly don’t know enough.  But I have learned about some ladies who call themselves Sisters On The Fly who have done it.  They inspire me.  I had to get a couple of books to read all about it!  Pretty cool!  So watch for future episodes.  It just might happen for me before I’m wear grey hair!

IMG_1676I have been known to stand in stores and read cards and laugh my head off.  People look but I don’t care.  If it is funny, I laugh.  I like clean and funny and these little one pieces for babies made me laugh right out loud in the store.  Sometimes I wish I could come up with these things.  It makes you wonder what type of person thinks these up!  But then I remember that I would like to be one of those persons, and I laugh again.  They would be like me who laughs in a store at a card that is funny, and sees the humor in all things.  I laugh at commercials at home all the time!  I think we need humor in our lives and maybe more of it.  Laughter is good for the soul!

IMG_1658IMG_1657So we have walked around, listened to music piped through the town square, enjoyed a Stawberries and Cream Frappe at Starbucks and talking about heading home.  We both wish we could do a couple more days of this.  But then I think everyone feels that way about a great get-away.  We walk back to the car and head down Tumwater Canyon and I take some shots as we go.  The beauty around us is right there, but we sometimes take it for granted.  Here are a few shots of my canyon run…

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The water along the river is so gorgeous!  I loved the movement and of course I could sit there all day listening to it!  I took a rock at one point and put all my concerns on that rock and threw it in so it could be washed away and I could walk away clean from my concerns.  That is how it is with God.  We give him our worries and troubles and He takes them away to Himself so that we can be free.  He smooths all my rough edges.  I was free that day once again.

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It is so nice to see all the waterfalls, great and small along the way.

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Close up of the river and the crashing waves against the rock.  “BE STRONG, I heard.  BE BOLD, I heard.  Never give up even when things are crashing in around you.  I AM HERE.”  Phew!!  Good to get that reminder!

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Look at this pretty waterfall so high up in the mountains supplying the water to the river below.  I saw this waterfall and thought it is a lot like God.  He supplies our needs from His High Place to our us.  Beautiful scene!

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Up river a little further, is the waterfall you see below.  It was so pretty.  There wasn’t a place to park, so we walked a ways to get this shot but well worth it!

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The photo below reminds me that we can have all the chaos around us, but if we have God in our lives, we can have calm right in the middle of it.  Do you see in this photo how the center is open and the waves are crashing all around it threatening to close in?  We can feel like that in our lives at times, and that is why these times away to reflect and enjoy life are so important for us.  Our perspectives are given an opportunity to see things from a different light.  Certainly, that happened for me during these three days!

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My hubby and I talked about where we want to go on our next trip.  Because you see, we need to do that.  It is a healthy choice, both for relationship and for healthy mind, soul and body.  What do you need to move around in your life to make time for the important?  It is well worth the sacrifice to do it.  Make a road trip fund and start right away!  We have our next one planned!  I would love to hear your thoughts on this trip and places you have visited or suggestions.  Where will your next get-away take YOU?

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I leave you with a photo that speaks of my feelings about the trip.  It is so pretty and very peaceful.  That is what this trip meant to me.

“When peace like a river attendeth my way, When sorrows like sea billows roll.  What ever my lot, Thou has taught me to say, It is well, it is well, with my soul!”  Horatio Spafford 1873 from Psalm 146:1.

Thank you for coming along on this Road Trip with me.  I have enjoyed sharing it and I hope you too can say daily, “It is well with my soul.”

Walking the journey with you…

Road Trip Part 3

Last blog post, I left you in Winthop.  Sorry about that!  But today I will catch you up and we will go visit our cute little place to stay!  But before we do, I just wanted you to know that I tried to get that jar with all the candy in it, but she wouldn’t sell her jar!  Darn it!  I even offered to let her keep the candy!  Anyway… we are now headed over to our little cottage room at Mt. Gardner Inn just outside of Winthrop.  When we arrived, I walked inside to check in and was told that she was upgrading my room at no charge!!!  Favor!!!  Yes!!!  So we walked upstairs to this lovely room with a RED door!!  Now I knew God cares about the little things in my life.   Our room had its own deck and view of the mountains!  Ah…it was so welcoming!  We had a refrigerator, microwave and gourmet coffee too.  We got things settled and put away just as a storm blew in and what a storm in was!

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A little while later it, it was really nice again!  I wish we could have stayed a bit longer and enjoyed that deck!

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Here was the entry to our room!  Our room even had a red door!  Yep all planned for me in mind!!  It’s in the little things!  Welcome mat and all!

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IMG_3809The next time we come, I want to stay in this cabin!  I love it!!! The people were great care takers, and it was a wonderful place to stay.  So with things all settled, we decided to give our friends a call that have a home in Twisp.  We had made plans to meet up for dinner.  We drove out to their place and visited for a bit and then they offered to go out on the 4-wheelers and see the property.  They have around 40 acres and part of it is on the river!  Oh HOW FUN!!!  Terry and I were on one 4-wheeler and our friends were on the other one.  We drove around the property, through the trees and around the corners and saw many, many deer standing there looking at us without a lot of fear.  They looked up to see where the noise came from and that was about it.  Terry hadn’t been on a 4-wheeler for a long, LONG time and so when we got up to the river bank and were going to back up so we could turn around, getting in reverse proved to be interesting.  I was hoping we don’t strip a gear!  Finally when he gets it in reverse, it is so sudden that my feet go up in the air and I have to grab him to hold on!  We are laughing our heads off!  The throttle was so touchy for him that he felt like a person just learning how to drive a stick shift!  We would have been quite the sight to see.  BUT I didn’t take any pictures!  Dumb or what?!?!?  But afterwards, we were so glad they offered that to us because we had a blast!  What great people they are and I love the treasure of friendship when you can be separated for years and pick up where you left off.  They were very such gracious hosts!

Next, we decided to hit the big town of Twisp to see what we could find to eat!  Now if you know this area, you know you could almost blink and miss the town.  But because of the time of day, we had a hard time finding anything open.  We saw this one restaurant that they had wanted to try but the timing never worked out for them.  This is one that you have to stop in and see if they have room for a reservation.  It was Italian food.  We had a great time visiting and catching up.  We could watch them cook most of the food, if not all of it, in an open stone oven.  VERY cool!  Good food, good music and good conversation.  Terry and I made that meal our celebration meal for our anniversary!  Good memories!  After a long table conversation, we said good night to our hosts, and headed back in to Winthrop to our room.  First thing Terry did was get some coffee going and I looked at all the pictures I had taken that day!  We were very thankful for all God had given us that day!  What a joy to see the country side we hadn’t seen in years, experience the ambiance of quiet places, and a share some time with friends.  We got all cozy for the night and did some reading before we let sweet dreams of sleep take over.

Good morning everyone!!! It’s Tuesday morning of our trip and we are ready to go!   We are excited because we are headed to Grand Coulee Dam today.  What a beautiful drive it should be.  We left our room, and headed out toward Twisp again and honked at our friend’s house as we passed them.   We are Grand Coulee bound!  Whoohoooo!  A lot of the pictures I take on the way today, I took through car windows as we drove, but we sure saw some pretty country.

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Found this log church to be interesting and inviting.  I love log houses and the look of them always seems warm, cozy and inviting to me.

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This farm is coming up from the valley just before coming into Grand Coulee Dam.  I love old barns, and so I get a picture anytime I can.  There is a smaller shed that is by itself that matched the barn.  As you look over this valley, you find this country has a beauty all its own.

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IMG_3844I saw these trees just up from the barn and wondered if there had been a fire at one time. They reminded me of survival… we all go through the fire at times in our lives, but we have to be determined to stand and face whatever it is that hits us.  God is our strength.  These trees were a good reminder to me.

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Look at the beautiful view of the valley!  I think I could deal with the barren land as long as I lived by the river.

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These fields of fruit look a lot different then they used to.  Now they have the cloth that they can roll out over the trees to protect them.  It was interesting to see how they did that over such large fields.  I remember coming over to the Eastern Washington as a child with my parents to pick up fruit and haul back home so we could can it.  Later in my parent’s life, they actually came over and stayed in their motor home, and picked the fruit for the farmers as an extra job each year.

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As we round the corner to drive into Grand Coulee, I was reminded of years ago when we came by motorcycle.  Oh yes.  I was the rider on a motorcycle that put on many, many miles across the states!  I learned to read and sleep while on a motorcycle.  That way when it got cold or rainy, I could sleep and not notice so much!  I wore leathers and boots also.  But I was a young adult when I rode and hadn’t been to the Dam since that time.  So, here I am some 35+ years later and it still quite a sight.  We pulled in to the park and walked around so I could get some pictures.  We were first greeted by some furry friends.  Before we took this shot, one was laying flat on its belly ALL sprawled out enjoying the sun!  I raised the camera to get the shot, and I hadn’t turned off my focus indicator, and sure enough, he heard that little tiny sound!  So when he looked up, I took the shot!

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I walked over to the dam and took a shot.  It is quite amazing.  It would have been awesome to have been there when they actually had it opened up more.

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Above, you can see the dam from the other side.  Just to the left in this picture, there is an observation and museum building that you can go through to see how it was built and it was fun to learn things I didn’t know about it.  They had many artifacts that you could see.  Of course, I found a camera and movie camera that I had to take a picture of!!  Pretty cool!

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This bird represents many that came over to this tree once I started talking to this bird.  It seemed all alone and it was really a pretty bird with black body and a green ring around the neck that kind of transitioned up the head to a mostly black head.  The eyes were bright yellow.  As soon as I started talking to the bird, then he started talking too and pretty soon a whole lot of friends came to join the bird in the tree.

On our way out of the park, I saw this really cool architecture in this building.  I always enjoy when I find unusual things and this was so bright, you couldn’t help but notice!  It was gold and so the sun reflected off of it and made it hard NOT to notice!  It was hard to get the full spectrum of the lighting in the photograph because I just shot it out of the window.  It’s all diamond shaped all across the front.

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After filling our eyes with as much as we could see, we headed out to Coulee City where some of my cousins live.  I hadn’t been in that area for years and years either.  So it was fun to see the area where they live.  On the way there, you will drive by an area that was purposefully, I believe, flooded and is now a lake.

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We saw many unusual mountain formations and the sky was beautiful as it set off the jagged edges of the mountains around us.

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If you look closely at the picture above, the bottom portion of the silver area reminded me of a key lock.  Maybe it is, and you could put a big skeleton key in that lock and a secret passage opens up.  I don’t know, but it was fun to think about!  Don’t ask me where these ideas come from as I am riding along!

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What a joy it was to ride along and have such great country before us.  We both enjoy traveling and seeing different areas, and so as we drove along to Coulee City, we had a great time munching a few snacks and talking about life.  The picture above and below were taken from the car at 60 mph so not too bad!

IMG_3868Another farmer’s barn!  Sometimes I think of traveling around and just taking barn and church pictures because they are so varied and fun to explore.  We came into Coulee City and drove around to find the best gas price and came back to the beginning of town to this cute little quaint coffee shop/gas stop/ice cream shop combination.  What a delightful couple that owned this shop.  Right on the main road and they had wonderful ice cream that we enjoyed after getting our tank filled.  Cute decor too!  A great addition to this little shop, is that they had wi-fi and good cell reception also!!! Yay!  They had pictures on the wall that were before and after flooding that area we saw before.  If you are ever traveling in this part of Washington, do stop by and see them!  They are a relatively new shop and had the best gas prices in Coulee City!

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Refreshed from a great dish of homemade ice cream, we are now headed for Wenatchee.  Another cousin lives there and we hadn’t seen each other in years and years.  So I had called from our little shop where we got gas and told her we were on our way.  Of course, I made a few stops along the way for some roadside finds.

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I wanted to hook this car up behind our little focus and pull it on home.  Oh it made me sad to see it sitting in the sun and no one doing anything with it!  It wasn’t it that bad of shape inside either!  My grandparents had this car in chocolate-brown.  This lady (me) loves vintage and classic cars!  Made me so sad to leave it sitting there in the field.  At one time, they had shown the car because it had a Collector’s License Plate.  It wasn’t for sale either.

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I just love old churches.  There is something about those steeples that you can see for miles that draw you in.  I saw this coming into town and told Terry to follow the cross.  It reminded me of a song that a gospel group called Gold City sings about a little boy who is lost and man comes up to him and asks the crying little boy what is wrong.  He tells him he is lost and can’t find his way home.  So the man tells the little boy to think of something that he can remember around the area where he lives.  All of a sudden the boy looks up through the tears, and with a smile says, “If you get me to the cross, I can find my way home.”  I kind of feel that way every time I come across a country church.  I love seeing the steeples above the houses and buildings in a town or city.  This one was a beautiful church out in Douglas, Washington.

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What a fun day this has been!  I hope you enjoyed the pictures and stories.  I will be driving you to my next stop, which I know you will enjoy, in Part 4 of the Road Trip!  Don’t miss it!  I have some fun finds to share with you and some great photos!  See you in the next leg of my journey.  Thanks for coming along with me this time…